you ever feel misunderstood? How about mistreated? you ever feel mistaken or as if you are unimportant. But really who says that you have to be judged in such a manner? The world is full of so many opinions, I myself have so many of them I don’t find the need to be judge by others I do I good job of judging myself. Most of the times we are our worst critic’s. Life is unfair thats a fact, I shared this concept with my four year old today and I found myself laughing when it was time for her to go to bed and Madison goes, “mom thats just not fair.” LMAO! Sometimes its amazing how a four year old can pick up on what most adults still struggle with. But she didn’t fight it she stated how she felt and compiled. I’m thankful for that. Ask any parent how difficult bed time can be with small children and they will understand.
I’ve been through a lot in my 23 years of life. Most of the time I’m just getting by. but on the rare occasion I do reflect of my life and this is something I actually enjoy doing. Even though doing so can be very painful. But I’ve always in a way been thankful for all the bad I’ve gone through in my life. To me I see them as bad memories, but its these bad memories that have allowed me to grow in to the strong survivor I am today. I don’t identify myself as a victim but a survivor it just sound more positive. A person really can take a lot of negative events and find a way to see them as positive or rather if their that bad point out the growth its allowed into their lives. Either way what ever you choice to do with them its you stuff you have to deal with so do with them what ever you please. one of two things can result from your choice it can be good or bad. The problem is that if its a bad outcome its only you that will have to deal with it and chances are you will spend a large amount of time trying to feel better and most of the time the answer is going to be how do I come to terms with all this junk?